Wife cannot orgasm

I psyched myself out. Practise patiently until you can bring her to orgasm manually, or at least provide enormous pleasure. Instead, take your time. Read the answers to more questions about sexual health. By Maria Del Russo. If the cause is psychological, it may help to see a sex therapist or doctor.

Orgasm problems can be: primary: a woman has never had an orgasm secondary: she has had orgasms in the past, but cannot have one now Also some women find they can orgasm when masturbating but not when they are with their partner. In addition, doing relationship repair work and processing the resentments that exist helps us connect sexually. Do you listen, support, communicate, and add the often necessary non-sexual relational support that many women need to feel relaxed and safe sexually? It makes a huge difference with comfort, performance anxiety , and sexual confidence for everyone to talk about sex. Is she experiencing some feelings towards you, such as anger, resentment, or other frustrations?

Page last reviewed: 20 November Next review due: 20 November It makes a huge difference with comfort, performance anxiety , and sexual confidence for everyone to talk about sex. But there are a few common areas worthy of exploration to see if they are associated with the female orgasm. What can cause orgasm problems in women? Back to Sexual health.

Your GP or another health professional on the NHS may be able to refer you for sex therapy depending on area , or you can contact a therapist directly and pay privately. Exploration of psychological factors is one method, which includes exploring past trauma, abuse, and prohibitions in the cultural and religious history of the person. I am unable to reach orgasm through sex with my wife. Please continue to respect all commenters and create constructive debates. Women have long been ignored when it comes to finding solutions to sexual dysfunction. Start your Independent Premium subscription today. Daily Edition app.